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Just when I thought it couldn't get worse

July 10th, 2007 at 06:02 am

I bought a portable washing machine about a month ago. Cute thing, only washes 4.9 lbs. of wash at a time, but does it really well. Found it on Craigslist and got a great deal on it. I used it probably upwards of 20 times before it flooded the bathroom I had it hooked up in, draining down in bucketloads into the landlady's apartment beneath, and from there into the basement.

Needless to say, we're moving, asap. I have no notion as to why the machine broke down like that, and at this point, I don't care. I just know that we're going to definitely be out our security deposit, to pay for the landlady's deductible for an insurance claim.

On top of that, we certainly hadn't saved up any money yet, not for a new vehicle (which was the first thing on our list to save for - a used minivan before winter strikes), not for anything. Which means we had to go through our list of family members to find out that nobody has any money to loan us. We ended up calling our bishop at church and laying the troubles at his feet. He's promised that if we pay the first month's rent, the church will pay the rest.

Now we just have to find a place... We're in the middle of bankruptcy, so that's not as simple as it might be. And we have to hope and pray that our landlady wants us out bad enough that she won't badmouth us to any future landlord/lady.

Incidentally, she's been after us to pay the full amount of the damages - She gave us an itemized estimate from some company or other in the amount of $2,400. We haven't responded. We will as soon as we've safely landed another place to live. We can then let her know that from what we've heard from a lawyer, all we're responsible for is her insurance deductible. And if she can prove in our lease that having a portable washing machine went against the terms of that lease, she has the right to evict us. But we're leaving anyway, so there wouldn't be much point in her taking that action.

I'm so tired of life socking it to me. I know we'll get through this, but I can't help but wonder, especially late at night like it is now, what infernal force has it out for this family? I mean... Not only are we in the middle of bankruptcy, not only did we manage to flood our building, but on the day of this godawful flood, I and my 4-month-old baby boy were both sick with the flu. Fevers, sore throats, coughs, body aches, etc... So I have to deal with mopping up a flooded bathroom when I'm sick as a dog, leaving my sick baby to scream in his swing. I still haven't forgiven my landlady and her family for not helping me clean up that bathroom or hold my baby while I did. Three weeks later, I'm still coughing my way out of this bug. My energy level is still way low. I've had to convince myself hour by hour that life is still worth living.

I'm unsure whether it's terrifying or comforting to me, but life could still be worse. It can always be worse. Unless you're a prisoner of war in a torture camp, it can always be worse. Or you could be homeless and dying from AIDS. Or you could discover you're the parent of the latest serial killer caught and made into a gruesome movie.

Yep, I'm babbling. Half-insane with stress and exhaustion, I figure I have a right to babble a bit. Specially since this is my very own personal blog!

The bright lining will be a new apartment. This one sucks anyway. I'm sitting here in front of the computer melting in Chicago summer heat, because the wiring in this stupid building isn't good enough to support a sufficiently powerful air conditioner to cool off our main living areas. We can only run smaller, single-room air conditioners in the two bedrooms. Can't wait to get into an apartment with normal wiring. And up-to-date plumbing that doesn't leak, with faucets with good water pressure. With windows that open and stay open. And no cranky landlady that lives beneath us.

My next blog will hopefully share all the lovely details of our new home.

10 Responses to “Just when I thought it couldn't get worse”

  1. carol Says:
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    OMG, I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))

  2. KarenSue Says:
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    Yikes! It sounds like you're really up against it right now. I'm sorry you're uncomfortable in this heat as well. Here's a {{hug}} from me... it's really hot here too.

  3. Carolina Bound Says:
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    I am so sorry for you. Sometimes life is very hard. I have been through hard times, too. Now I'm on the upswing. Hang in there, just do what you need to do day by day. It will get better.

  4. Ima saver Says:
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    Bless your heart, hope things get better for you soon.

  5. nance Says:
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    Keep telling yourself, "And this, too, shall pass". It will. Hopefully, things will get better for you and your family.

  6. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:
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    I wonder if there is someone objective who you could ask whether you really should move right now. If you have no money for the deposits at a new place, I'm guessing there might be other expenses connected to moving that you just can't handle right now. I understand the stress of the bad apartment and the landlady who wants you to pay damages. But if you will legally owe the damages, I don't think that will change just by moving; the debt would follow you. Maybe the stress and discomfort is just so great that you have to move for sanity's sake. Still, it might be better to wait and decide after you have recovered from your illness and the baby is better, too.

  7. honeichild Says:
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    I'm so sorry to hear this. I will say a prayer that everything works out. *hugs*

  8. JanH Says:
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    Sending good thoughts out to you and your family. Maybe this move will be the beginning of a much brighter chapter in your lives. You are under a heavy load right now. Vent away to us and keep us posted. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

  9. dtjunkie Says:
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    Hang in there! When things get gloomy for me, i know this sounds really corny, but I just give my daughter lots of hugs and kisses and stare at her beautiful face and think that having her safe and healthy in my arms is the best its ever going to get. Everything else is icing. Sappy!! I know.

    But you got it right, just count the blessings and rant all you want about the others. Smile

  10. Amber Says:
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    OMG, too bad you can't sue the person who sold you the washing machine...you have to move because the washer flooded? that deosn't seem fair or legal. Also get your own estimate it might be less than hers. Also check with the state housing department, if your apartment deos not meet certain requirements (like the electrical work) your landlord my have to void your contract. My sister (we're in FL) did that and she was able to stay in her apartment for 6 months free(hers was electrical)...good luck and here is a hug Giveusahug

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